Psychology of Human Relationships

Our existence is based on the relationship and the real relationship means to be united with the body, mind and spirit. Corruption starts when there is no real relationship because individuals are internally fragmented, think one thing, do another and also another different things. The current human psychology on relationships is decoupled, each one has been locked in his own ambition. People are images that look a thing but are another, and this crisis is not in the external world but in the individual conscience.

But this human psychology understanding on relationships can change.

We all seek safety counseling, depending on each other for comfort, for pleasure, to their need for companionship. We feel alone, isolated, need affection and esteem, but at the same time we also to dominate each other. If there is a joint project people can stay together but that is not related. Be related means not depend on one another, no one is able to escape from loneliness through the other, not trying to find satisfaction or through another company. In short do not use the other as an object for its own purposes.

A mind that is competitive, ambitious, which is always a comparison, imitation, can have a real relationship because when you are comparing feel envy, jealousy, ambition, desire to overtake the other, creating conflict. Engaging means no separation, domination or self-centered activity. Otherwise we find life empty and meaningless. To discover the meaning of life we ​​must also understand the meaning of death now, because life and death are like two sides of a coin. Today would die for us psychologically to ambition, and that's what will happen when we get physical death.

When you die you really should stop all without a single argument because there is no time to finish anything. It can discover and then live the now, putting an end to all accumulated knowledge, memories, experiences, offensive, comparisons, every day, so that the next day your mind is fresh and young. Such a mind can never be hurt, because no more your old images associated with events. Then there is no fear because every day is new, and the mind takes a timeless state, knowing what it means to die every day for everything that was accumulated during the day. Recently there flourishes the love, kindness, understanding what it is and true compassion. That is a relationship where you can share, because you can only share the truth, watch the world and compare and nonjudgmental.